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Wednesday, May 23, 2012

No laughing matter

Posted Monday, June 20, 2011, at 9:36 AM

Since 2010, actress Laura Linney has starred in the series, "The Big C," which airs on Showtime.

The show, according to the Internet Movie Database (imdb.com) is about a suburban mother, recently diagnosed with cancer, attempts to find humor in the disease.

Linney has won a Satellite Award and Golden Globe award for Best Actress for her portrayal of Cathy Jamison, the woman diagnosed with cancer.

In addition, the show was named Best Television Series (Musical or Comedy) during the 2010 Satellite Awards.

I've never watched the show. We don't have Showtime in our cable package.

But to be quite honest, my funny bone must have deserted me a long time ago, because I don't see humor in cancer.

When I first came back to Brazil, my grandmother was battling cancer.

A battle she lost.

Now, the disease has reared its ugly self within my family yet again.

This time, twice.

The disease has also reared its ugly self on the family of my wife in recent months.

It never gets easier to deal with. You can see the pain and fear in the faces of family members, knowing life could come to an end.

While one of my family members appears to have beaten back the disease, another may not be so fortunate.

It is too early to tell what may happen, but the pain is always there. For everyone in our families.

While I can't, and won't, speak for my wife, even while sitting at work, attempting everything one can to get through the day, I have found it difficult to not let my thoughts drift to family members who are battling these demons.

All we can do is think of them, keep them in our thoughts and pray for them.

Maybe "The Big C" is funny. Maybe it's a television series with a great message.

But maybe doesn't mean a whole lot when you're dealing with the real thing.


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Having fought the same battle over 6 yrs ago, I agree there is little humor in discovering you have the big "C". You are lost, scared, wondering if your time on earth is over, wondering how your loved ones will cope, knowing that your owm Mother died from this horrible disease but you take a deep breath, smile because you know nothing in life is guaranteed and you will get through this. Your friends will support you and your loved ones will give you all the love you need. The light coming toward you is a day when the doctor says "It has been over 5 years so you don't have to come in so often for a checkup". You once again see the humor in life, you relax for now but you never really accept the idea that you are cancer free but you get on with life. You cannot live with "what if's" so you make the best of a bad situation. You thank God you have time to do the things that make you happy including laugh.

-- Posted by waterless on Tue, Jun 21, 2011, at 10:10 AM

It's interesting that you can pass judgement on a show that you've never seen. This is a typical small town and small minded attitude that permeates Brazil and the surrounding area. This is just one example of dozens of topics that people don't bother to explore before they develop an opinion on.

-- Posted by Unsolicited opinion on Wed, Jun 22, 2011, at 12:06 AM
Jason Moon
I wouldn't say that I was passing judgment on the television series. Rather, I just don't think cancer is a laughing matter.

I understand how you feel but sometimes laughter is the best medicine. I have a close member battling cancer right now and sometimes we laugh through the tears so to speak. It's a devastating disease but at times when she's at a low she'll say something to crack us up and life gets brighter for a few seconds just by seeing her laugh. I will pray for you and your wife's family members. It's a hard road to travel and knowing other people support you helps alot.

-- Posted by ugotitdude on Wed, Jun 22, 2011, at 8:35 AM


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